Paralympian Lloyd Bachrach From “Yes You Can!” Endorses Becoming a True Champion

Great endorsement from paralympian and inspirational speaker Lloyd Bachrach ( Yes You Can!). Here is what Lloyd wrote after reading Becoming a True Champion:

“One of the reasons I attended Northern Illinois University was because Kirk Mango went there. I was a still rings and pommel horse specialist and [he] was a NCAA national champion on still rings. Although Kirk had graduated just before I began my college career, I heard many great things about [him] and his incredible work ethic. All these years later, I was honored when he asked me to review this book. It is clear that Becoming a True Champion represents the fruition of Kirk’s successes throughout his entire career. My goal in life is to inspire others, and with this book, Kirk Mango has certainly inspired me.

“Becoming a True Champion is not only his story of success in gymnastics, but it is a guide for all athletes in any sport to fully understand what it takes to become a premier athlete. Wonderfully written, this book is a step-by-step process to success in sports. Kirk is careful to explain the hard work, effort and dedication that it takes to become a “true champion.” I highly recommend that any athlete who wants to succeed in his sport must read Becoming a True Champion. Kirk, you have done it again!”

Lloyd Bachrach,
Yes, You Can! Motivational Programs
1996 U.S.A. Paralympian – Sitting Volleyball
1980 I.H.S.A. – 5th Place Pommel Horse

Thanks Lloyd I appreciate the support.

All my best

Kirk Mango

Steve Weatherford From the New York Jets Endorses “Becoming a True Champion”

I was happy to receive an enthusiastic endorsement from Steve Weatherford, current punter for the New York Jets. Here is what Steve had to say after reading Becoming a True Champion:


"I read it, I loved it, I live it! As a professional athlete in the NFL I've made many sacrifices in my personal and athletic life. Becoming a True Champion is an inspiration even to me now. It's a great reference for the passionate athlete willing to make sacrifices to achieve true greatness.”

Steve Weatherford
- NFL punter, New York Jets
- University of Illinois All-American Punter
- University of Illinois Decathlon school record holder
- 3x All-Big Ten Football
- 2x All-Big Ten Track
- 4 Sport All-State High School- Football, Basketball, Track, Soccer

Thanks Steve for a wonderful endorsement.

All my best

Kirk Mango

Inspiring Athletes From Within: A personal attempt to make a difference

It is in my continuing efforts to publish Becoming a True Champion (BATC) that it dawned on me how important group and team motivational speaking presentations could be in delivering the principles of athletic success I so desperately want to encourage in athletes.

You see, in addition to BATC, I have gathered and/or written a fair amount of inspirational material for my blog (The Athlete's Sports Experience: Making a Difference), that I felt could truly help athletes achieve higher levels of excellence in sports; maybe even inspire them to reach beyond the “normal” limitations that traditionally hold others back from accepting difficult challenges.

After much introspection, I decided on four important concepts (for my presentation) that I felt were necessary if I ever expected to be successful at reaching inside athletes to help them discover the power they have within. To truly do this, my presentation would have to:

a. Encourage an emotional investment from the athletes present,
b. Create for them a better and deeper understanding of what it truly takes to accomplish athletic goals and dreams they may have,
c. Draw the connection of how important one’s choices are in this process,
d. Demonstrate for them how similar their frame of reference is to others who have accomplished athletic success.

So, after giving three presentations (one to a high school volleyball program, high school cross country program, and high school competitive cheer program), how did it all go? I suppose that would be best left up to those who attended as they leave their own thoughts and comments at the end of this blog.

For me personally, however, it was and will continue to be a wonderful experience. My hope is that my presentation, and my own personal story, moved those in attendance to accept the challenges that seeking to achieve one’s true potential brings, allowing them to reap the intrinsic rewards one receives when traveling such a path.

Thanks to all those who attended. It truly was heartwarming to have been part of your sports experience along the way.


“Greatness, whether athletic or otherwise, doesn’t come from those content on just being but from those who seek being the difference.”

Team Sports and Consistent Performance

Often I hear team sport athletes talk about how difficult it is to perform their skill set in competition on a consistent basis. I have frequently witnessed many of them (team sport athletes, and even entire teams) ride a wave of inconsistency playing well one night and completely opposite the next.

It is during this up and down performance rollercoaster that I find myself asking questions like, What if?, How come?, Why is that so? and Is there a better way? As a former athlete, coach, and teacher, it is simply part of my nature to ask such questions.

So what is it that seems to make it difficult for many team sport athletes to achieve the consistency that eludes them? In order to try and answer that question it might be best to take a look at sports where consistency is king.

In sports like figure skating, gymnastics, and diving, athletes must perform flawlessly if they are ever to succeed. One mistake, just one, can spell the difference between first and who knows what place. They do not have the luxury of saying, “Ok I will get the next one” as do many other athletes. When they falter, they must hope others falter or they’re done, out of contention.

As I contemplate asking how they deal with this, because the best of these athletes are exceptionally consistent in their performance over time, I reflect on the fact that these are athletes that do not have an opponent firing an object at them nor are they competing directly against their opponents.

Hmm, that is true, however, they do have the added pressure of that “one mistake and you lose” type of situation to deal with and no second chances. That sure is a lot of pressure, really tough pressure I would think.

In addition, there are athletes who do have objects fired at them and do compete directly against an opponent, and the best ones are still able to consistently perform well under pressure. Tennis is a game like that with 140 mph serves coming at you and you have to return them over a net. Tough to do that is for sure, and there are athletes in that sport that are known to be deadly at returning serve. In fact, they are so good it strikes fear in many a server’s mind, increasing the errors they make.

So that brings up another thought. All four sports I mentioned above are individual sports and do not really carry a team aspect to them.

Hmm, that is an interesting point. However, that point in and of itself raises a very fascinating question that I believe is at the center of this discussion.

What would happen in a team sport if an athlete playing that sport brought to the table the same perception, attitude, and focus that the individual athlete brought to their table (into practice and competition)? Would there be a change? I mean does it really matter whether the skill set a person is working on is for a team sport or individual sport? Is there really any difference between the effort and focus one needs to train or compete a double or triple axle in skating, a 2 ½ somersault with 2 twists in diving, a return of serve in tennis, a free throw in basketball, or a pass in volleyball.

I mean the skater could easily take off or land on the wrong part of their blade or catch some bad ice causing an error, the diver may have to contend with a stiffer board than what they are used to, the tennis player may incorrectly predict the speed or kick of the ball, the basketball player may not put enough arc on his or her shot, and the volleyball player may not accurately judge the wobble in a floater serve.

So then the real difference centers around the fact that in passing a volleyball, shooting a free throw, or returning a tennis serve – the athlete will likely get another shot at it while the diver and/or skater will not. They could easily be out of the running with one mistake. This is also true in a sport like gymnastics, no second chances.

This makes me wonder if this is the reason for the wavy inconsistent play you see from many a team sport athlete. That because there is likely to be a second chance, focus is much more easily lost. Maybe even training and practice are looked at differently by team sport athletes. Maybe many – most, with the exception of the very consistent, don’t carry the same focus into their training that a successfully consistent individual sports athlete does.

And maybe they don’t carry the same perspective that their successfully consistent individual athlete counterparts do in competition, that every single movement – every single skill – does count and that the better you do each one, the higher your chances of succeeding regardless of what everyone else around you does. That always working toward perfecting your skill set is what will bring to the athlete the consistency they are seeking. This is true for any skill they perform even with the knowledge that absolute perfection is impossible.

So again, what would happen if a team sport athlete brought into their training, practice, and competition the same perception, attitude, and focus that a successfully consistent individual athlete has to bring into theirs? What would happen if the importance of quality of one’s skill set took on the same level of importance that it does for their successfully consistent individual sports counterparts? Would those athletes be able to perform their skill set at a consistently higher level than other team sport athletes that continued on the path that most of them seem to follow?

Case in point, I have seen a volleyball player literally drop a serve receive pass right on top of a setter’s head when the chips were really on the line. Say on championship point where one mistake would have caused an immediate loss. And I have seen it done many times in pressure situations like that. This is not something exclusive to volleyball either. Many of you know of a few athletes in other sports who consistently do the same thing, that when the game is on the line they simply perform better.

It is that same perspective, that same attitude, that same focus that these specific team sport athletes bring to their position in pressure situations, time and time again, that leads to the consistency that the best individual athletes seem to possess and train with on a regular basis. That is what they, the individual athlete, must bring to their table if they are to consistently handle the pressure they are always under when they compete. If they don’t, they are no more consistent than their team sports counterparts who seem to always ride that wave.

A diver must contend with a board, their body, and the pool, a skater must contend with their skates, their body and the ice, a gymnast must contend with the event, their grip, and controlling their swing or momentum, the basketball player must contend with their competitors, the basketball, and scoring baskets, the libero on a volleyball team must contend with the volleyball, their body, and what they must do with that ball.

So you see, all athletes are much more alike than they are different. They all have an environment they must adapt to, contend with, and try to control. The only real difference between athletes is in the quality of what they are willing to bring to their training and competitive table in order to help them consistently perform at peak levels.

And herein lies the conundrum that so many team athletes are faced with. Do they continue to ride the wave of inconsistent up and down thinking, accepting that that is just the way it is, or are they willing to learn from their successfully consistent individual sports brethren and make a choice to be different and become the difference?

Yes, it is true that just because one team athlete takes on the attitude explained above that their team could still not succeed. But what are the chances of the team succeeding without that change? And what if that change encourages the change in others, then what?

I leave you with that last open ended question.

High School Inspirational Speaking Presentation a Success

This past Monday, I had the wonderful opportunity to present my thoughts and ideas to the DGS High School Volleyball Program on how athletes (or anyone for that matter) can achieve success through very adverse conditions. Basically, how people “beat the odds” and become one of those rare groups of individuals able to surmount what others believe to be impossible.

There were approximately 60 athletes present along with the coaching staff and all seemed involved and interested in the activities and stories I used to support my thoughts.

The experience was an awesome one for me as I used the same voice and purpose presented in my book Becoming a True Champion. Hopefully, all the athletes on hand were able to grasp the true importance of an unbending will and determination and what it can bring to the athlete when applied.

I finished my presentation with the following prose I wrote for the team:

All of you in this room, based on the choices you make – both collectively and independently, will ultimately be the ones who will determine whether you are successful or you are not. You see, greatness doesn’t just happen, it happens because of something. And that something…it is the level of determination, or WILL, you bring to the table each and everyday. So don’t be content on just BEING, but on BEING THE DIFFERENCE. In the end, win or lose, it is this attitude that ultimately determines satisfaction with one’s performance or regret over it. Don’t leave this up to chance; you decide. Take on the challenge and be one of those rare individuals…..one of those rare teams that goes out and BEATS THE ODDS!!! You have nothing to lose but your limitations.

Good luck and have a great season!!!

And what a pleasant surprise by the unexpected and heartwarming thank you note I received today from head coach Colleen Reagan.



What a great group and wonderful experience. I think I will do this again!!!!

Title Change For BATC

After much deliberation my coauthor and I have decided to make a change in the title of our book. The purpose of this change is to bring more focus and direct more attention to the larger market for which Becoming a True Champion was written. Now the title speaks loudly about its purpose just as the book itself speaks directly to whom it will benefit. Our new title:

Becoming a True Champion: Achieving Athletic Excellence From the Inside Out

If You Live To Be 100!!!

If you live to be 100 years old you will spend the first 50 years of your life doing many things.

You will spend the next 50 years doing more things and reflecting on all of those things that you did in your first 50 years.

Toward the end of those 100 years of fruitful living you will spend a good deal of time reflecting on and evaluating those 100 years of life.

So, make sure you spend time doing things that are worth reflecting on and that bring value to you and to others.

It is in so doing you will find happiness in a life that was truly worth living.